Relationship: Do Ex-Girlfriends Come Back? Most Don’t, Some Do and Why

Most don’t, even if they still have feelings because a lot of women are too prideful to be the one who asks for a reconciliation, because they think too much time has passed or because they have accepted its over and closed this chapter for good.

And when they come back around, it‘s usually because they want to see if you‘re still available for them or because they need a rebound-option.

That’s why as a modern man, it‘s never worth it to wait for an ex to come back, let alone to chase her.

Because usually, they’re up to no good and exes are supposed to remain exes.

Besides, a reconciliation can only turn into something better, more stable and substantial than the first try if:

Both of you underwent some sort of radical personal transformation.
Both of you owned your chunk and improved the behaviors on your part that contributed to the breakup.

Both of you have healed from it properly.
You have the deeper alignment that’s necessary for such a relationship to exist, to be built and sustained in the long term. We all usually only meet such matches maybe 2–3 times in our whole life if you‘re lucky, and more often than not an ex doesn’t belong to those matches. At least not anymore.

So, realize and accept that women come and go.

This is as true for you as it is true for me and every other man on this planet.

Take with you the lessons, the wisdom and the growth but leave the rest behind.

Focus on rediscovering your life without her.

Process your emotions and feelings.

Invest in yourself.

Rebuild your self-confidence and self-respect.

Choose women who choose you and avoid pursuing relationships with women who either don’t want you or consistently choose other men over you.

This will get you your power back and make it infinitely easier to get over her.

-quora