It’s true. Studies show that women find the vast majority of men unattractive. So, this should give men every reason to give up, sit on the sofa, and order more pizza.
Of course. If you look deeper, you could also find comfort in the fact that most men are physically unattractive to women.
It means that a woman’s attraction to men usually goes more than skin deep. Women may not find you physically attractive at first, but in the right context that can change.
It’s because most women today have completely unrealistic expectations. They want a super-hot, tall guy who is also wealthy, who is going to be nice, and romantic, and who is going to be faithful. Those things never come in a single package.
Social Media and dating apps have given women virtual exposure to men all over the world, rather than just the men around her, so they actually have access to the top men all over the world.
The problem is, those top men aren’t looking for relationships – they’re just looking for some casual sex, because why would the want the hassles of a relationship when they can use a girl until they get bored with her or until she becomes a hassle, and then he can dump her and have a new replacement within a day? There’s no upside to a relationship when you’re in that position.
Women chase these men because they foolishly believe that she is going to be the one who is so special that he will commit to her, but that’s never how it actually works out. Still, it’s allowed women to have crazy high standards.
And women even demand men that have the best attributes of all of the guys before him – if one guy was very fit, she will only date fit men. If one guy was rich, she only wants rich men. If one guy was very smart, she only wants smart men. If one guy was tall, she only wants tall men.
The fact that she didn’t find all of those many traits in the same one man before doesn’t occur to her – she now wants everything in the same guy – which would make him insanely desirable to all women – and then she thinks she’s going to have him to herself. That’s just delusional.
Even worse, women are very much in denial about the fact that they have the most leverage they will ever have when they are in their 20s, and that their “market value” is going to go down significantly in their 30s and continue to drop from there. Instead of securing a solid relationship in their 20s, women are focusing on their careers and are sleeping around in their 20s, and then they think they can be more demanding in their 30s and 40s, and can’t figure out why they can’t find “a good man.” Well, that’s like wanting to buy a new Ferrari when you only have, at best, Honda Civic money. You can want all you want, but you won’t be getting that Ferrari.
