Most women, especially African women believe that when it comes to sex, anything goes and they can be satisfied with anything that comes their way. But that is not the fact as men also have fantasies they would love to fulfill and this includes trying out different sex positions that would give them the ultimate joy. Ultimately, sex is about love and intimacy, so while the different positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways.
Some men love a variety of positions whenever they have sex and as such, would not mind an introduction of some styles to spice up your sex life.
There are some things men want in bed and will be very happy to try it out and we recommend these positions for you to try every time you are having sex with your man and you will never have him stray again.
- Woman on Top
When it comes to sex, the woman-on-top position is seen as one that brings the best out of a woman but some men are really crazy about this as they allow the woman to take control and just lay back and savor what she is doing to him.
Ask your man what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and it is our bet that he will mention this position. This sexy position puts you in the driver’s seat, and that’s exactly where he wants you.
Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what you like, leaving his hands free to roam. He loves having a full view of your curves and to get him crazy, turn on the light and give him a show.
In local parlance, this is the normal ‘Mama-Papa’ style but this is as old as life itself. However, this standard go-to is a favorite because it puts your man in control, while still being intimate; remember that your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease.
And while he is in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, you can easily tell him or put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best sex is like a conversation, and missionary allows you to communicate with your bodies.
- Reverse Cowgirl
This is the reverse variation of the woman on top position and it is the best of both worlds for your man. It gives him the sexy view he gets during the doggie style while it also puts you in total control.
This position doesn’t allow for a ton of touching or eye contact, but it is a nice contrast to some of the more classic, romantic positions. If you’re craving a connection, flash a look back at him while you’re doing your thing; it’ll drive both of you over the edge.
- Doggie Style
Most women are of the belief that the doggie style was made specifically for them but this rear entry position puts a man in control, allowing him to call the shots and to go at the speed that’s best for him.
The added advantage is that it allows for deeper penetration making him feel like a king in the bedroom. Some women love the intense, full feeling, but if it feels like too much, let him know. Communication is key to enjoying sex and experiencing the full psychological benefits of physical intimacy.
- Standing Up
Getting it on while standing up is probably not your go-to move, but it’s perfect for that sweaty, gotta-have-you-now sex that’ll make him feel irresistible. Whether he’s bending you over the kitchen table or you’re steadying yourself against the wall, this spontaneous position is perfect for a quickie.
Sex while spooning is the ultimate intimate position and a go-to for when you’re feeling lazy but affectionate. Not only does it give him total access to your body, it also frees your digits up so that you can give yourself a hand, a move that is sure to drive him wild.
Make it even hotter by twisting your body and head slightly towards him so you can smooch while his hands roam. Afterward, you can slip into an easy, snuggly sleep.
- The Lap Dance
Pull up a chair and have him take a seat while you get on top. He’ll love the look and feel of you straddling him, and having you in control will help him last longer, too.
Unlike the standard woman-on-top position, this one allows for you to stay super close, kiss, and make eye contact. Plus, he still gets to be aggressive with his hands, tugging on your hair, rubbing your back, and pulling you closer.
- The lazy man
Let your partner really relax by placing pillows behind his back and having him sit against them with his legs outstretched. Then, once you’ve lowered yourself onto him, you can press on the balls of your feet and release to raise and lower yourself as quickly or slowly as you please.
This classic position allows you to take charge of pace and depth of penetration, so alternate between shallow and deep thrusts to stimulate different parts of your vagina. To increase sensation, your partner can manually stimulate your clitoris – if you feel like giving him control, that is.
- Pole position
This is the ultimate position for dual pleasure. Straddling your partner’s bent leg means you’ll get clitoral stimulation and penetration at the same time. Hold his knee, and use it for support as you rock up and down. Want to drive him even crazier? Glance behind you to watch him enjoying you taking the reins.